It feels like a word prescribed onto us, calling us toward a duty to be productive — to separate our day into the things we must do and the things we want to do. There are dichotomies implied:. How we experience these kinds of orgasms will be different to an external clitoral orgasm. There is no right or wrong, better or worse, we just explore and label possibilities and really just leave it up to loving and sexy discovery, that makes us feel alive.

It was the level of miscommunication that really stuck with me. Struggling to speak up herself, she decided to discuss her problems with a friend and found they ended up sharing a lot more than she anticipated. At the end I felt very charged up about it and thought that I needed to give this feeling to other women. What would you want them to know?

Research shows that men regardless of sexual orientation are more likely to reach "the big O" than women. Now, a Tumblr page is giving women an anonymous platform to sound-off on this sexual disparity—and maybe get some answers. The female orgasm has mystified people for years. While it's true that some women achieve orgasm pretty regularly, for others it's not that simple.